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I Really Need Help With My Love Life

Question: Thanks for taking the time to read this message. It took a lot for me to write this but I really need help with my love life. I had some traumatic experiences growing up, and now I seem to really be stuck when it comes to dating and sex. I discovered EFT last November and have been using it and it has cleared out honestly all of my trauma. I have honestly no stress looking back at my trauma, but I still cannot seem to start dating now and that's why I wanted to get in touch. Please let me know if you can help.


Answer: Many people are fooled by partial results with EFT and you, I suspect, may be one of them. While it may seem clear to you that EFT "...has cleared out honestly all of my trauma," the fact remains that you are still "... stuck when it comes to dating and sex."


This, to me, is a big clue that, while you may have taken the edge off of many traumatic incidents (hooray!), some core elements have gone unaddressed. Otherwise, why wouldn't you have the freedom to date and express yourself sexually. Something deeper appears to be stopping you and the high likelihood is that deeper elements of your traumas are still unresolved.


To discover what these issues may be, here are some common questions you might ask yourself...


  • What penalties might there be if I allowed myself to be free in the dating/sex arena?

  • What would I have to believe in order for dating/sex to be a problem?

  • Whose rules would I violate if I was free in the dating/sex arena? Where did those rules come from and how valid are they?


These are starting points, of course, and point to areas where skillful uses of EFT, particularly Optimal EFT, can provide great benefits. You will likely need higher quality levels of EFT than your current understanding provides. That's why I urge to consult the references below.


e-Hugs, Gary








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